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How to Blossom When You Feel Like You’re Withering

Are you feeling like a flower withering on the vine? 🥺

There are a few things you can do to change your mindset, your environment, and ultimately your life. Life can often feel overwhelming, especially when you find that there is no one to turn to for guidance or support. Often it seems like when we need help the most, those around us would rather do us harm.

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First, you don’t have to pick up the phone, answer that message, or accept that invitation. ❣️ People can make us feel like we are beholden to them, their needs, their dreams, their timeline. We aren’t! People only have that type of power over us if we give it to them.

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Avoiding toxic people is absolutely essential for maintaining your well-being, and maintaining your well-being is critical to accomplishing your goals. As a friend told me once, “you can’t pour from an empty vessel.” Fill yourself with positivity and love.

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If you are finding that your family and friends are’t giving you what you need. You are not the only one. It’s unfortunately common that those closest to us are unable to see what our true potential is. It could be that they don’t want to acknowledge their own short comings by recognizing our strengths. It could be that they want to keep us where they are so they don’t feel alone. You just never know.

The thing we must all accept is that it is okay to not know. When focusing on your growth it’s important to not get distracted by others. Everyone has to find their own path and hopefully, your example will motivate those around you to do the same. Choose you!

My father told me once, “You know you don’t have to respond.” Truer words have never been spoken and taking that lesson to heart has made a huge difference in my life these past few months.

Carefully cultivating a social circle where you are surrounded by people who appreciate, nurture, and motivate you is a crucial component of a successful life. Find the people who will encourage you and help you to continue to blossom. 💞


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